When war, violence or disaster is on the news everyday, children are likely to be frightened and to ask questions about it. In these situations, parents often wonder how to answer in age-appropriate ways. Here are some tips that can help you better communicate with your kids and help them feel safe.
Tips on how to talk to your kids about war:
It's important that you ask your kids what they already know. Ask questions and open a discussion with them. Be careful that you understand the meaning of their words. Children do not think or see things the same ways as adults.
It's also recommended that you show your children that you heard and understood what they said by commenting on their statements. That will encourage your child to tell you more about his or her feelings.
Tell your children just what they need to know. The whole truth may be difficult to understand for a child.
Your children need to be reassured about their safety. Make sure they know they're safe and that you're there to protect them.
Be open to your kids opinions and ideas even if you disagree. Instead of telling your child he or she is wrong about something, you may just guide him or her to a more appropriate answer through questions or open discussion.
Disasters may strike quickly and without warning. These events, often difficult to handle for adults, are particularly traumatic for kids. However, you can prevent such a scary experience by creating a disaster plan by following some simple steps.
Tips on how to create a disaster plan to protect your family:
Find out what could happen by contacting local organizations such as the Red Cross. They will give you accurate information about your community warning signals and places you can get help for your pets, elderly people or a disabled family member you're responsible for.
Create a disaster plan. To do so, you must contact all members of your household and organize a meeting to discuss the dangers you may face and how you can organize. Children in your family should participate in these meetings to know what to do in emergencies.
Create a list of several of your family and friend's telephone numbers as well as emergency numbers. Be sure that you are properly insured and that you have adequate emergency supplies. Teach your kids how and when to use these numbers.
It's important that you practice and maintain your plan. Question your child regularly about it. You may also need to regularly meet with your friends and family involved in your plan.
If you need more information about how to talk to your kids about war, visit the following websites:
www.aboutyourkids.com
www.pbsparents.com
For more information about how to create a disaster plan, visit the following websites:
www.ready.gov
www.disasterrelief.com
www.redcross.org
